The Dissociation curses are strong ancestor messages of rejection and negation by a significant group - one's family or peers. The words and behaviour of this reference group has the same effect as a curse because one is forced to a negative belief by the way you are treated. Ultimately, it leaves one with the feeling that one does not have the right to exist - what we mean by shame based dissociation.
A family (church, work place, school or village) throws a 'dissociational curse' when they treat us as if we do not belong. Sometimes the youngest child is given no voice in family matters even when they grow up. There opinions, decisions and wisdom is given no value, weight or honour.
Being treated by a referenced social group as if you did not belong, with little or no say and very little honour or value is the diossociational curse in action. It is a failure of respect. It is a failure to uphold you, encourage you and respect your life.
The Dissy curse is a message from those who should by life-giving; instead they send a message of death. Dissy curses send messages to the target victim. Whether intended or not the message is to die rather than to live. Dissociation is a death curse whose poison brings us down and 'dissy curses' them to less than their abundant mentally healthy life .
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