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Dissociation is an action which you have had chosen for you
During dissy moments you may even say you want to die. We strongly believe that the origin of our feelings of dissociation are rooted in early experiences of the family, group, tribe or social group sending signals of rejection to us. We are ostracised, shunned by our tribe or excommunicated from our family of origin.
There is need for discernment because many report that a large majority of dissociation patients have a strong (but hidden) death wish. They may have given up hope on life. This set of the inner person against life will not be healed by affirmations. Even if the dissociation is explained, until the work of the ten stages is entered into the dissociation patient may constantly relapse. The real problem may not be the cancer of dissociation (symptom) it may by the patient (unconscious choice to give up.)
This is why it is important to seek ten stage wisdom in meditation - Stage One: listen to meditation of letting go. Watch closely and ask some questions to discern the heartiness of the person's commitment to live, reasons to live. Were they closely bonded to one person who became their life?
One of the profiles of the dissociated patient is a life where only one parent was the source of love and where only one other person was allowed into their heart. When that one person dies then they quietly let go of life. (Even if you are married to such a person you may not be the one person that they bonded to. It might be another love, or a child.)
If you have dissociation in your life meditate on the ten stages understanding any possible wish to die and choose life positively daily. Meditation firstly clears the path to health.
The Dissociation Curse is deeply rooted in our minds
The experiences that build the dissociational curse are often repeated in small ways. They are ongoing experiences of a certain sort of trauma. Because they are so often repeated they appear quiet 'natural' to our social groupings. If someone in the group, that is, family, does not have a voice that is accepted as natural and right. It becomes 'enforced' by social norms if we try to break this ancient pattern!
Us as the 'victim' often accept this social reality, this ancestral family 'truth.' 'That is just the way things are.' That means that, as a child, one just accepts that this is the reality of our life, of being you, of how others did not 'see' you. That means years of emotional experience being laid down in our emotional brains before we ever get a 'mind of our own' to question and think for ourselves.
This makes this "curse of dissociation" much more ingrained into the our psyche. The core root belief system of the child subjected to dissociation is going to choose to accept or unconsciously accept the implication of the dissociational messages. The implications of that message are devastating to our self-worth, our expectations of our self, others and the world surrounding us, of our basic right to be alive, well, healthy and prospering.
Sunday, 10 September 2017
What is a Dissociation Curse? Definition of a Dissociational Curse.
The Dissociation curses are strong ancestor messages of rejection and negation by a significant group - one's family or peers. The words and behaviour of this reference group has the same effect as a curse because one is forced to a negative belief by the way you are treated. Ultimately, it leaves one with the feeling that one does not have the right to exist - what we mean by shame based dissociation.
A family (church, work place, school or village) throws a 'dissociational curse' when they treat us as if we do not belong. Sometimes the youngest child is given no voice in family matters even when they grow up. There opinions, decisions and wisdom is given no value, weight or honour.
Being treated by a referenced social group as if you did not belong, with little or no say and very little honour or value is the diossociational curse in action. It is a failure of respect. It is a failure to uphold you, encourage you and respect your life.
The Dissy curse is a message from those who should by life-giving; instead they send a message of death. Dissy curses send messages to the target victim. Whether intended or not the message is to die rather than to live. Dissociation is a death curse whose poison brings us down and 'dissy curses' them to less than their abundant mentally healthy life .
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